When feminism is all about the equality so why should men be away of this. It never hates men so they should love it. Only women can not change the scenario of inequalities in society. Men also have to come to step together with men. If the men join the feminism and understand the pains of the women, they can coordinate accordingly.
It has been observed that patriarchic system is maintained by orthodox male members of the society. If the males are educated for the purpose, the things can be changed. Men should join and welcome feminism and make it more powerful.
There is not harm effects for men by doing so as ultimately a balanced society is fruitful for them also. Actually most of the men oppose feminism just because of ignorance of it. They should be aware of the concepts of feminism. If males are educated about the feminism, they will surely make it more successful.
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